Now that Lola has done the obligatory "I haven't written in ages... please forgive me," the raging public that is living for every drop she writes can rest assured that she is writing again. Albeit bitching about the ridiculousness of assholian family members.... Lola prepares for her nuptials in June... Only to discover that her future in-laws, savages at best, have decided that they would rather sit at home and be spiteful than enjoy a lovely lobster dinner at her wedding. Well, Fuck Them. Lola has taken entirely too much of their self absorbed bullshit. And since she's paying for her entire wedding herself, she gets to choose who is allowed to come and who is not. When push comes to shove, the people who are willing to stand up for you are the people who count. The people who shit on you with their own insecurities and neediness do not deserve the privilege of being in your immediate circle of family/friends. Or in the outskirts. Or on the next continent. Surround yourself with people who love, support and cherish you. Those who suppress, hurt and belittle you can suffer in the darkest realms of Hades, left to fester and die. You don't need them. And nor does Lola.
Saturday, March 22, 2014
Holy Shit
Ahh, Lola has been BEYOND remiss in actually blogging. She has thought about it many times, but, sadly, ennui has won out on each and every instance. She was, however, delighted to see that people have actuallly READ said blog. And her hear grew three sizes that day... As you few readers have surmised, Lola's musings are really just a commentary on her life in general. And, gladly, her life as of late, has been quite good. Lola has found a man that can handle her. Unfortunately, his family is not up to the task, but that's their problem, not hers. Her knight in shining armour takes the good, the bad, and the occasionally hilarious. Lola only hopes that others find such completeness.